For many of us, after we have hit bottom in our addiction and surrendered our ego to become humble, and admit our lack of ability to control our substance abuse, then we seek help and treatment, spending time, money, and emotional capital, to stay sober long enough to convince ourselves and others that we have recovered control of our senses. Unfortunately, for some of us, the first thing we do when we get out of Rehab, left to our own devices, we relapse right back into our addictions—like nothing ever happened.

So, the right question to ask while we are still in Rehab, before we step back out into the world, and start trying to take control of our old life, is: “What comes after Recovery”? A lot of us who get through Detox and Rehab treatment, and learn about sobriety tools like: AA, NA, CA, sober-living, meetings, service, and staying connected to sober communities, would answer: “What comes after Recovery is more Recovery!” And we would be right, until that fateful day, when our Recovery isn’t enough to deal with the root causes of our substance abuse; when our new sober wiring gets short-circuited by the triggered pain and suffering from our past physical and mental conditioning, and our dormant hard-wired patterns of addiction get sparked, relighting our lives ablaze, on fire again: leaving us more confused, feeling totally isolated, and without hope!

I have learned that Recovery alone is not enough to ensure my long-term sobriety. I have researched for years to know that my ability to stay sober requires Healing: the wounds of my past hurts, traumas, and depressions. After Recovery from my addiction to substance abuse, it takes Healing now to minimize my chances of future mental breakdowns and suffering again from the same hurtful past. Yes, early sobriety can feel like effortlessly floating on a pink cloud of Recovery, temporarily free from cravings to escape past emotions, but long-term sobriety requires that ugly concept of “doing the work” of Healing: to stay sober enough to begin uncovering my past, to transform the pain and suffering through understanding now, the reasons I didn’t understand then—to dissolve the past, in the present moment, until it no longer arises in the future.

So, what comes after Recovery from addiction? The transformational work of Healing—uncovering the past, by removing the scabs that hide the pain and suffering that haunts me, and Healing the still-open wounds with compassionate loving-kindness, until they disappear for good!

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